My extraordinarily ordinary life!
If you can, pay a visit to the Colchester Zoo. I’ve not been to ZLS London Zoo but from the looks of it, Colchester might provide you with more value for money. I think this opinion is slightly biased because I do love what I call my local zoo!
Sharing with you one of my favourite snapshots of the red ruffed lemurs who love lounging above in the beams of one of the thatched roofs in the Lost Madagascar enclosure.
I’m quite pleased with the photos that I’m taking.
This is one of my favourite photos and I’m using it as my Samsung tablet wallpaper. It’s a close up macro photo (I’m just spewing out photography terms and I don’t even know if I’m using them properly! Ha!) of a bunch of pink flowers that I saw at Colchester Zoo.
Nothing earth shattering just me giving myself a pat on the back!
Just writing thoughts down. This post has completely no purpose except to vent.
Time flies when you’re having fun…and even if you’re not!
I can’t believe we’re half-way through with 2016! Someone once said that you know you’re getting older when time flies past so quickly. If that’s the case, then I’m definitely ancient. I find myself thinking more often than not, “Stop the world, I want to get off!”
Sometimes I get home and I want to just completely switch off. Just go to bed and pull the covers over my head and just sleep. But I can’t because there are chores to be done, food to be cooked, a kitchen to be cleaned. Then after all that, sometimes I wonder if I’m just wandering around life, walking in somnambulistic circles? I find that I’m asking myself all sorts of existential questions which scare me.
I find that a recurrent thought is me to have proper downtime. For me to just lie in bed. To not be responsible for anything. For me to have a day when no one asks me to do anything for anyone. For me to be alone with my books and my thoughts and my dreams. For me to sit at a coffee shop window, nurse a huge cup of coffee and watch the world go by.
I think I now understand what it is now to have social media fatigue. Ever since I moved to England, I’ve been online all the time. I’ve worked really hard to make the thousands of miles between me and my family and friends appear small and insignificant. I’ve invested in tech so that I can get in touch, be in touch and be accessible to everyone back home 24/7. There are days, however, when I want to completely switch off. To not bother catching up on tweets, Instagram, look at Facebook posts, catch up on LinkedIn (which, I might add, I haven’t really totally wrapped my mind around, even though LinkedIn says I’ve got an “all star” profile, whatever that means!), and to not care about work emails and how many emails I have in my Outlook inbox.
Mark Babbitt said that “[w]hen you realize you’ve stopped contributing original thought to a conversation, you are suffering from Social Media Fatigue. It is time to step away and take a social-less vacation.”
I think I need another break. A long one where I’m allowed to just walk, take pictures, enjoy my little seaside town, and not be responsible for anyone or anything, to completely switch off. To not worry about tax investigations or HMRC correspondence for clients. To not worry about family and if they’re all okay. I need to refill my spirit tank. I need to replenish my cheerful me supplies, restock my happiness cupboard.
I think that’s my goal for the next half of 2016. To find time for me. I have experienced burnout and that wasn’t a very good place to be in. I need to take care of me because no one else will do that.
I’ve finished another book! Hurrah! I am now catching up to my goal to read 24 books this year. I am now just a book away from catching up! Yay!
The book that I’m now reading is the next installment in the Tudor story beautifully written by Philippa Gregory. She now writes about the last of King Henry VIII’s wives, the queen that survived him, Katherine Parr.
I’m about about 5 chapters in now and am quite pleased with my progress! Here’s to more books, eh?
Can someone recommend what I should read next? Any suggestions folks?
Who doesn’t like chocolate? Apart from chocolate cake, one of my favourite chocolate consumption delivery systems is the good old chocolate brownie. And after trying all the ways to make a brownie, looking through so many recipes, I have finally settled on my own. Because I’ve made the brownie this way several times now and it comes out with that thin, shiny, crackly film on top, which I firmly believe is a sign of a good brownie! Of course, other opinions are welcome.
So, if y’all are interested in trying it out, my brownie recipe is written down below.
Ingredients:
Directions:
Serving suggestions:
TIP: Caramel cheat – in a deep saucepan, boil water and add a can of unopened condensed milk (sans paper label), yes the whole can. Boil for 3 hours. When you open the can (after it has cooled enough to touch), the caramel will be ready to spread on anything!
There is something infinitely comforting in walking in nature. I took this photo on a walk with Alan on Saturday. It makes me smile to look at this photo. Sometimes, when you need to slow down, when you need to centre yourself, a quiet walk, surrounded by nature, is the best solution.
When I flounder around in deep waters,
When the stresses of life take their toll,
A sudden deep hush steals upon me,
Your gentleness calms the soul.
I know that in this day and age of instant gratification, we often do without the social mores that our parents or grandparents expect us to follow. I get that. On my birthday, I got several (very beautiful) birthday cards (I was so touched by the amount that I posted a photo of the cards!) and I absolutely adored that. We don’t write enough letters anymore in this day and age of emails and instant messaging.
Whilst on this soap box, I seriously believe that “please” and “thank you” are still important. Even if you don’t mean it. I know a lot of people will poo-poo my encouragement of insincere platitudes, but I am a firm believer that politeness is still a social requirement. You ask someone to do something for you, you say “please.” If someone does something for you (whether requested or not) you say “thank you.” This applies to everything from letters to text messages. It’s an unspoken rule: you use the magic words.
Freedom of speech is a basic human right and we can say whatever we want, however way we want to. But politeness never cost anyone anything, and it’s a sign of your humanity.
It’s my birthday! Hurrah!
So this is how 40 feels? I don’t really feel any different from yesterday. Sure, there are aches and pains, creaking bones and clicking mandibles, but apart from the carpal tunnelly hands, I think I’m okay. Oh and I’ve seen (and dealt with) a few more grey hairs!
I have been thoroughly spoilt with birthday presents, flowers and birthday greetings. People have been so kind. I’m glad that I’ve done enough good to deserve the well-wishes. Thank you to my church baby Nikki who wrote me a lovely message. I wonder sometimes if I’ve become too distant, too protective of myself to do any good, to do something for other people. I’ve been struggling with myself lately, having internal arguments about how I’m behaving. I’m glad I am still doing something to make some people happy. Because that’s all I ever really want, I want to make people happy.
I want this year to be the year I make improvements to myself. I want this year to be the year I tick off some of the items on my personal to-do list. I want this year to be the year I officially establish my real “hustle” (it’s a little something I learned from Emma Gannon‘s podcast – listen to Episode 9 where Emma interviews Paulette Perhach. These millenials are so driven, you get energised just listening to them!) so that my current “hustle” becomes my “side-hustle” so that I can do what I really want to do!
It’s not going to be easy, because I am plagued with procrastination and I have the tendency to allow myself to be swallowed up by inertia. I am bolstered, though, by the desire to do something else, to do something creative, to work for myself.
I am determined to do something this year.
I don’t look too bad for 40, do I?
At work, on Fridays, we have an unspoken rule that when we leave the office at the end of the day, we leave our desk as bare as possible so that the cleaners can dust our desks. I try to make sure most of my desk is clear so that they can spray Pledge and dust when they do our area. Not that they actually dust. But I live in hope. One day, I shall come to work and my desk will have the lingering smell Pledge and I will plonk myself on my office chair and smile.
So this weekend will be my birthday…my 40th birthday. Looking at my desk today, I think making sure I adhere to the Clean Desk Friday policy will be a bit of a challenge and will require an extra 15 minutes of clearing up!
One the eve of what is, arguably, the most divisive of Philippine elections, my thoughts turn to home. My thoughts turn to my countrymen who are about to go to the polls to select a new leader.
My dear fellow Filipinos
I do not intend to change your minds about who to vote for. That is your choice to make because we live in a democracy and we all have the right to choose. I ask you to vote wisely because apart from making your choice, you are also choosing for people who are not able to make the choice.
Make sure that the person you vote for has the right agenda. Make sure that the person you vote for understands that our country is no longer an archipelago of 7,107 islands but part of a global community where working relationships are important. Make sure that the person you vote for intends to implement fiscal policies that lift the country’s economy up. Make sure that the person you vote for feels that they are not only accountable to every single Filipino but that they answer to God too, that their moral compass points to the true north. Make sure that the person you are voting for is really the change that the country needs, that you’re voting not just for change’s sake. Most importantly, make sure that you vote not because there is an instant economic gain for you in exchange for that vote, but that you are putting ink to paper because you think that person is worth the vote.
And lastly, make sure that once you have voted, after all the votes have been cast and counted, you haven’t burned any bridges and severed relationships. We all have opinions and we need to expect that we all won’t necessarily agree. I pray for clean, honest and peaceful elections.
Mabuhay ang Pilipinas at mabuhay ang Pilipino!
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